Having had a very good conversation with the Senior Pastor,
and getting our questions satisfactorily answered, the major impediment to our
joining the church is that of denominational identity. I never imagined that I
would be a member of anything but a Baptist church.
Maybe I’ll end up something like what one of my former
students said about herself. She grew up
a Methodist. She was marrying a Baptist, and she joined his church and was baptized
according to the Baptist tradition. Afterwards she was firm in saying to me, “I
just want you to know that I’m not a Baptist, I’m just a wet Methodist”. I may become a member of a Presbyterian
church, but will I ever be anything but a Baptist at heart? That part of the
journey is yet to be revealed.
Still, I do appreciate what the Pastor said about the
difference between their “essential” and “non-essential” doctrines. I heartily
concur with all of their “essentials”. I can live with some difference of
opinion on their “non-essentials”. In
part 6 of this Journey, I mentioned five things I’m looking for in our next
church home. One of them was “a place where everyone knows your name”, that is,
a Christian family. And in part 8, I said this is a place where we already have
some friends. That makes a big difference.
It’s hard to make new “old friends”, so to go to a church
where we already have some makes losing the weekly contact with the friends we
made at our previous church a little easier. We still want to keep the bonds of
friendship strong with our friends at our previous church; but we are also not naïve.
We know we will have to be intentional about keeping them alive. Thankfully,
some of those friends are also reaching out to us to keep our relationships
strong.
In the end, though, all of the factors in post #6 will influence our decision on joining a church, not just friendships. If friendships were the only factor, we would not have started on this journey.
Interestingly, at least to me, as I look back at the factors listed in post #6, none of them were specific to a certain denomination. Much like many others I've come to know over the years, denominational labels are becoming less important to me. I've known genuine Christians from every Christian denomination over the years.
The core Christian doctrines are critical for me: what they call the "essentials" at CCPC. I've come to see that the place where some churches get off the track generally centers on what they teach about Jesus Christ.
If a church affirms the traditional doctrines about Jesus (as in the classic creeds of the church), other doctrines will usually fall in line. If a church denies certain core teachings about Jesus (such as His divinity or His bodily resurrection), other core doctrines fall apart as well.
Does that sound strange--that a "Christian" church will get off track concerning their teachings about Jesus? It sounded strange to me too when I experienced just that phenomenon. When talking about Jesus only as a teacher, a model for life, and as one we should "follow" and never talking about Him as "Savior" is the norm, one wonders what it is about that Jesus that one would worship.
It is clear from the Scriptures (see especially I Corinthians 15) that without a conviction that Jesus did indeed rise from the dead, one's faith is in vain. As both Lindsey and I have often said, "If Jesus didn't rise from the dead, we might as well just be a member of some club like Rotary that does good deeds but doesn't require much else of you. Or, why not just get a tee time on Sunday morning instead of wasting it in a meaningless church service.
But if Jesus' resurrection was real...well, that makes giving Him my life the most meaningful thing I can do. That is exactly what I have done. I've given my life to Jesus Christ, and He has become my Savior and my Lord. That is what has given my life purpose, whether as a sailor, a student, a pastor, a Campus Minister, or even as a Realtor.
So, one thing is sure--the church which we will join will have very clear, traditional, Christian teachings about the core doctrines, and especially those about Jesus Christ. More to come about this after we've taken the classes.